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Saturday, November 18, 2006
Links for the attachment
Missed the attachment files so giving you the Links to download :
http://www.sendspace.com/file/npx5q5
http://www.MegaShare.com/77013
http://files.filefront.com//;6205324;;/
http://www.filefactory.com/file/5de043/
http://www.sendspace.com/file/npx5q5
http://www.MegaShare.com/77013
http://files.filefront.com//;6205324;;/
http://www.filefactory.com/file/5de043/
Real sales situation reaction test pics
This amounts to punishable unlawful act...but while giving my Psychometric test at Redington India, i was so bored that i thought of doing something just to break the boredom or simply get a kick!!!I took this screen shots of the test and bought it by attaching it in my mail!!!The test was for 3 hours covering 213 questions on Personality..so no wonder one will definitely get bored!!! I finished the test in 1 hour and 35 minutes. While writing my exam i also opened my Yahoo mail to check mails!!! Its visible on the Status bar of the screen shots of the images attached!!! Still i dont know how could i make it!!!
P.S. : Please dont try this at home or office
P.S. : Please dont try this at home or office
Psychometric Blues
The Poster says it all outside our room:
"We Are missPLACED!"
Finally the results came. well out of 9 guys only 4 cleared the Psychometric round. Many of us were complacent with Pyschometric test but the result has caught many of us off-guard!!
Here is a Link to Free Psychometric Test :
http://www.bradleycvs.co.uk/psychometric.htm
Free Personality test:
http://www.hrchally.com/ODA/SPC.asp?ValKey=SELPOW8&VL=eng&Locked=0
Some Interview questions at:
http://www.coolinterview.com/
Tips for making CV & Interview Questions at:
http://www.essayedge.com/business/essayadvice/course/ltwo_accomplishments.shtml
Cool Interview questions & answers at:
http://hrinterviews.blogspot.com/
Although in my opinion one can change personality over night but if you go through this tests, one would definitely get a fair idea of his personality. Most Psychometric tests judge people with thier consistency so you can pick areas of one's personality and work on it during actual test. After having the SSB Interview (For entry into Defence force), i feel one needs to be very honest and consistent while giving these types of tests. SSB interview is a learning process in itself.
We also had a Sales Situation reaction test, which judges one's response in a sale situation. Here i guess one needs to be street smart in answering. Attached file is a actual SSRT that we gave. Guys, lot of questions are direct rip off from B2B class discussion of Mohan kuruvilla!!!
Meanwhile 2 guys were placed in Ness Technologies in HR.
2 guys were placed with CW Sloutions.
Guys also appeared in Bajaj Allianz and E&Y BPO. Results are awaited.
"We Are missPLACED!"
Finally the results came. well out of 9 guys only 4 cleared the Psychometric round. Many of us were complacent with Pyschometric test but the result has caught many of us off-guard!!
Here is a Link to Free Psychometric Test :
http://www.bradleycvs.co.uk/psychometric.htm
Free Personality test:
http://www.hrchally.com/ODA/SPC.asp?ValKey=SELPOW8&VL=eng&Locked=0
Some Interview questions at:
http://www.coolinterview.com/
Tips for making CV & Interview Questions at:
http://www.essayedge.com/business/essayadvice/course/ltwo_accomplishments.shtml
Cool Interview questions & answers at:
http://hrinterviews.blogspot.com/
Although in my opinion one can change personality over night but if you go through this tests, one would definitely get a fair idea of his personality. Most Psychometric tests judge people with thier consistency so you can pick areas of one's personality and work on it during actual test. After having the SSB Interview (For entry into Defence force), i feel one needs to be very honest and consistent while giving these types of tests. SSB interview is a learning process in itself.
We also had a Sales Situation reaction test, which judges one's response in a sale situation. Here i guess one needs to be street smart in answering. Attached file is a actual SSRT that we gave. Guys, lot of questions are direct rip off from B2B class discussion of Mohan kuruvilla!!!
Meanwhile 2 guys were placed in Ness Technologies in HR.
2 guys were placed with CW Sloutions.
Guys also appeared in Bajaj Allianz and E&Y BPO. Results are awaited.
Monday, November 13, 2006
Something about Moral & Love????
Something about Moral & Love????
Recent developments around me have forced me to rethink what moral is all about? What can be considered amoral and what moral? Who decide what is moral or not? What is the limit of morality? Who define this limit? Morality in a relationship is the center of my discussion.
Similarly, I was always amazed by the words ‘Love’ & ‘Friend’. Both of these words are so loosely used. Sometimes to replace each other! Where is the thin line that divides these two important entities? How can one differentiate these two entities? Do these two entities dependent on each other? Do they go simultaneously?
May be at the end of this write-up I will find my answers to this question.
Relationship between a Boy and a Girl takes different form. It starts with a “getting-to-know-each-other-phase”. This symbolizes that they are simply acquaintance. You say hello & hi to each other. They smile at each other. They like each other. Then comes a phase called “getting-to-know-deeply-each-other-phase”. This simply means because they like each other, they want explore more about themselves. They want to learn more about other’s likes, dislikes, wants, aims, dreams etc. Then they align their likes, dislikes, and aims, dreams to that of other’s likes, dislikes, aims and dreams. They find commonalities that they can cheer about and share between them. This involves sharing of trust. It could be seen by some or little physical intimacy. Then come the “intimate-phase”. Both are now very close. They are physically close, as mentally and emotionally they are close already. Kissing, pecking or love-making is what they experience in order to show their love for each other. Then comes the phase of “honeymoon-is-over”. The idiosyncrasies that they found in each other so cute become a pain in the neck! They get bored with each other. They hardly find time with each other. ‘Whether they have chosen the right person?’ this question comes to their mind. But, this phase also comes to an end. And next phase is the ‘building-of-trust-phase’. This phase symbolizes that one move ahead in their relationship, wisely passing those low phases. And this cycle is a vicious cycle. It repeats itself.
Many a time I have come across a discussion like, how can they go together in just two days? How can they get so close in just four days? This is with a reference to a Couple-in-love. Yes, they can. For some people to get close may take about three years but for some it might take only 24 hours! It’s all about what wavelength of mind and what type of personality they are. And blame the hormones! So nobody has the right to accuse them of ‘Time-pass’ affair. They are also like one among you. The only difference is that, what you could have taken 3 years to achieve in a relationship, they achieved in just three days.
So, if you analyze the vicious cycle of relationship, you will notice that, with passage of time, the relationship evolves to the next level. First are the Emotional level, then mental level, then the Physical level and lastly the Spiritual level (E-M-P-S). First phase of any relationship is pure emotional. There is no logic or reason to it. That’s why it is called ‘falling in love’. There is something that attracts two persons. Its pure hormone-play. Mental phase means after knowing each other, one evaluates the personality, wavelengths, culture etc and accepts the other person. Physical level symbolizes the sharing of trust, so physical love. Spiritual level is the next level, which keeps two lovers bound together, after storms after storms. But not all people take the same path or cycle. For each and every individual the level is different. Which level comes after what is purely dependent on that individual? It is his personality, thinking that rules as to what level he is looking at. So for a person it could be Physical level first then Emotional then Mental then Spiritual level. This is exactly called ‘Lust at first sight’. One might come across a Sexy girl and find her physically attractive. Then that lust could turn to love, once both of them know each other and start discovering each other. It is pure natural to follow this pattern, and nothing is wrong. But wrong is accusing someone who doesn’t follow the E-M-P-S route. Because there in is lies the moral ambiguity. For those who feel, Physical intimacy is the top level of morality; ‘P’ comes at the end of the cycle. So they are very late to reach there in a relationship. I call them ‘Prudes’. For a person who is experimental and adventurous in life, ‘E’ comes at the end of the cycle. For them P is not important, but E is very important. Ever noticed a very vivacious and talkative girl, she will be hugging you, and mixing with you like anything. This shows that she hardly cares about physical intimacy. But for her Emotional intimacy is very dear. Her heart beats for someone she loves only. Take another example, ever noticed a bit reserved Girl; she will never get physical with you. She will maintain a distance whenever she talks. This shows that she is too fussy about Physical intimacy and that is reserved for someone whom she loves. But she can be emotionally close so many of her friends. For her emotional closeness is at the bottom of the cycle.
So morality is determined by the type of person that he is and what the level of his relationship is. Prudes are very fussy about physical intimacy and but very casual about emotional intimacy. Similarly, outgoing persons are very fussy about emotional intimacy but very casual about physical intimacy. So it depends on the priorities of life. Isn’t it a mistake to call those who value emotional intimacy higher, ‘amoral’? It is also mistake to call those who value Physical intimacy higher ‘moral’? Because, by their own standards, they are Amoral, as they can be emotionally close to so many people!!!!
I have a friend who believes in true love. He happens to be a prude. He is against any physical intimacy in a relationship. He thinks this is amoral and bad. But by god in 18 months of stay here, he has had four intimate relationships!!! And 3/4 crushes to his credit also. For him physical intimacy is a big no. But his various relationships here are an example of above argument. And that is, morality is not restricted to Physical aspects alone. One can be amoral emotionally or mentally also. For example, your wife may not have physical relationship other man but she could always think of her Ex-lover. She could be very obedient and sincere to you but she could dream and think of her Ex-lover. And is it not an Amoral Woman??? I guess yes. If you are emotionally attached to someone else while being in a relationship then you are amoral. If you are mentally attached to someone else while being in a relationship then you are amoral.
So if you think your buddy’s GF has a good ass then I am afraid you are amoral. Because being in a relationship you should never think of other girl’s ass!!! So what if it’s only a thought. But the thought is amoral!!! The bottom line is Physical intimacy with someone else while being in a relationship is not a Sole factor of immorality.
“Virginity is not a dignity but lack of opportunity”
Now how do we differentiate Friendship and Love? The first question that is asked to a person, who is most likely to have a Love affair, is “Are in love with that XYZ person?” The immediate answer from is “NO, How could you imagine that”. This is very common. Its human psychology to be on defensive, when asked about something called love. Love has no reasons. Love numbs your decision making process. So next time when you ask this question to a person, just observe his reactions. If his/her cheeks turn pink or red!!! Whether he reverts back with a defensive answer. You know what the real answer is.
Some analogy to decide whether it is friendship or love---
You are woke up by her miscall not alarm clock.
You send a Good morning sms to her first after getting up.
You dress up good so as to leave a good impression on him. (Only for Gals)
You run to Mess so as to reserve a Plate for her and wait till she comes.
You run to class to reserve a sit for her.
You run to Audi to reserve a class for her.
You shift to corner sit so that she can sit in front of the fan.
You keep smsing when she is sitting 2 yards from you.
You start your Google talk to see whether she is online.
You start your Orkut Scrap or Yahoo mail to see whether she has sent you a mail.
You take a credit from your roomie to recharge your mobile balance so that she can give miscall anytime and you can call her immediately!!
You ask her for a spare pen on phone when your roomie has 3 extra pens right next.
When you look into your Lappy and chat with her, while you are talking with others in room.
You buy expensive gifts for her.
You run to Gowda to call her, after she gave you a miss call.
You march out of the room towards the bathroom floor to chat her on fone.
You chat with her 9AM to 1 PM, 2 PM-5 PM, 6 PM- 9 PM, 10 PM- 4 AM.
You go to IT Lab to be with her (Only the second time in your stay at IBA after KM group work!!).
You spend time with her around Gowda shop, Admin Block, Pond, Dining hall etc at unearthly hour of the night!!!
You do your Dashman case study (Mancom) more sincerely so that she gets full mark!!(If only you could put the same effort in 2nd trim in Mancom!!!!)
You Format her word file and take a print out on her behalf.
You giver her Gyan, as to how to go in a train journey, how to travel. (Was she traveling for the first time???)
You wake up at 5 in the morning (By MBA standard 5 AM is unearthly!!) to wish her Happy Journey...
You are the first to ring her whether she reached her home safely.
You mislead your friends and stealthily go to Pizza Hut and bring Pizza for her.
You mislead your friends and go to Jayanagar with a dating trip.
You mislead your friends and take her to a shopping trip.
…
…
…
The list goes on…
This is love and please don’t hide your feelings ever. It is so much visible. Be a stud and accept your love for someone. Don’t hide it under the carpet. And start giving excuses. What I learn is a boy and a Girl can never be friends. If they are it is very unlikely. Somewhere, it will evolve or fade out. And more likely the boy would start doing something like the above points and then I bet this is not friendship. Its love.
But a prude will be defensive. He will never accept his love. He will give lame excuses. But he knows deep inside and we all know this is love. Because if you are just friend you will never do this as cited above. Only when you have some feelings you will do this.
Recent developments around me have forced me to rethink what moral is all about? What can be considered amoral and what moral? Who decide what is moral or not? What is the limit of morality? Who define this limit? Morality in a relationship is the center of my discussion.
Similarly, I was always amazed by the words ‘Love’ & ‘Friend’. Both of these words are so loosely used. Sometimes to replace each other! Where is the thin line that divides these two important entities? How can one differentiate these two entities? Do these two entities dependent on each other? Do they go simultaneously?
May be at the end of this write-up I will find my answers to this question.
Relationship between a Boy and a Girl takes different form. It starts with a “getting-to-know-each-other-phase”. This symbolizes that they are simply acquaintance. You say hello & hi to each other. They smile at each other. They like each other. Then comes a phase called “getting-to-know-deeply-each-other-phase”. This simply means because they like each other, they want explore more about themselves. They want to learn more about other’s likes, dislikes, wants, aims, dreams etc. Then they align their likes, dislikes, and aims, dreams to that of other’s likes, dislikes, aims and dreams. They find commonalities that they can cheer about and share between them. This involves sharing of trust. It could be seen by some or little physical intimacy. Then come the “intimate-phase”. Both are now very close. They are physically close, as mentally and emotionally they are close already. Kissing, pecking or love-making is what they experience in order to show their love for each other. Then comes the phase of “honeymoon-is-over”. The idiosyncrasies that they found in each other so cute become a pain in the neck! They get bored with each other. They hardly find time with each other. ‘Whether they have chosen the right person?’ this question comes to their mind. But, this phase also comes to an end. And next phase is the ‘building-of-trust-phase’. This phase symbolizes that one move ahead in their relationship, wisely passing those low phases. And this cycle is a vicious cycle. It repeats itself.
Many a time I have come across a discussion like, how can they go together in just two days? How can they get so close in just four days? This is with a reference to a Couple-in-love. Yes, they can. For some people to get close may take about three years but for some it might take only 24 hours! It’s all about what wavelength of mind and what type of personality they are. And blame the hormones! So nobody has the right to accuse them of ‘Time-pass’ affair. They are also like one among you. The only difference is that, what you could have taken 3 years to achieve in a relationship, they achieved in just three days.
So, if you analyze the vicious cycle of relationship, you will notice that, with passage of time, the relationship evolves to the next level. First are the Emotional level, then mental level, then the Physical level and lastly the Spiritual level (E-M-P-S). First phase of any relationship is pure emotional. There is no logic or reason to it. That’s why it is called ‘falling in love’. There is something that attracts two persons. Its pure hormone-play. Mental phase means after knowing each other, one evaluates the personality, wavelengths, culture etc and accepts the other person. Physical level symbolizes the sharing of trust, so physical love. Spiritual level is the next level, which keeps two lovers bound together, after storms after storms. But not all people take the same path or cycle. For each and every individual the level is different. Which level comes after what is purely dependent on that individual? It is his personality, thinking that rules as to what level he is looking at. So for a person it could be Physical level first then Emotional then Mental then Spiritual level. This is exactly called ‘Lust at first sight’. One might come across a Sexy girl and find her physically attractive. Then that lust could turn to love, once both of them know each other and start discovering each other. It is pure natural to follow this pattern, and nothing is wrong. But wrong is accusing someone who doesn’t follow the E-M-P-S route. Because there in is lies the moral ambiguity. For those who feel, Physical intimacy is the top level of morality; ‘P’ comes at the end of the cycle. So they are very late to reach there in a relationship. I call them ‘Prudes’. For a person who is experimental and adventurous in life, ‘E’ comes at the end of the cycle. For them P is not important, but E is very important. Ever noticed a very vivacious and talkative girl, she will be hugging you, and mixing with you like anything. This shows that she hardly cares about physical intimacy. But for her Emotional intimacy is very dear. Her heart beats for someone she loves only. Take another example, ever noticed a bit reserved Girl; she will never get physical with you. She will maintain a distance whenever she talks. This shows that she is too fussy about Physical intimacy and that is reserved for someone whom she loves. But she can be emotionally close so many of her friends. For her emotional closeness is at the bottom of the cycle.
So morality is determined by the type of person that he is and what the level of his relationship is. Prudes are very fussy about physical intimacy and but very casual about emotional intimacy. Similarly, outgoing persons are very fussy about emotional intimacy but very casual about physical intimacy. So it depends on the priorities of life. Isn’t it a mistake to call those who value emotional intimacy higher, ‘amoral’? It is also mistake to call those who value Physical intimacy higher ‘moral’? Because, by their own standards, they are Amoral, as they can be emotionally close to so many people!!!!
I have a friend who believes in true love. He happens to be a prude. He is against any physical intimacy in a relationship. He thinks this is amoral and bad. But by god in 18 months of stay here, he has had four intimate relationships!!! And 3/4 crushes to his credit also. For him physical intimacy is a big no. But his various relationships here are an example of above argument. And that is, morality is not restricted to Physical aspects alone. One can be amoral emotionally or mentally also. For example, your wife may not have physical relationship other man but she could always think of her Ex-lover. She could be very obedient and sincere to you but she could dream and think of her Ex-lover. And is it not an Amoral Woman??? I guess yes. If you are emotionally attached to someone else while being in a relationship then you are amoral. If you are mentally attached to someone else while being in a relationship then you are amoral.
So if you think your buddy’s GF has a good ass then I am afraid you are amoral. Because being in a relationship you should never think of other girl’s ass!!! So what if it’s only a thought. But the thought is amoral!!! The bottom line is Physical intimacy with someone else while being in a relationship is not a Sole factor of immorality.
“Virginity is not a dignity but lack of opportunity”
Now how do we differentiate Friendship and Love? The first question that is asked to a person, who is most likely to have a Love affair, is “Are in love with that XYZ person?” The immediate answer from is “NO, How could you imagine that”. This is very common. Its human psychology to be on defensive, when asked about something called love. Love has no reasons. Love numbs your decision making process. So next time when you ask this question to a person, just observe his reactions. If his/her cheeks turn pink or red!!! Whether he reverts back with a defensive answer. You know what the real answer is.
Some analogy to decide whether it is friendship or love---
You are woke up by her miscall not alarm clock.
You send a Good morning sms to her first after getting up.
You dress up good so as to leave a good impression on him. (Only for Gals)
You run to Mess so as to reserve a Plate for her and wait till she comes.
You run to class to reserve a sit for her.
You run to Audi to reserve a class for her.
You shift to corner sit so that she can sit in front of the fan.
You keep smsing when she is sitting 2 yards from you.
You start your Google talk to see whether she is online.
You start your Orkut Scrap or Yahoo mail to see whether she has sent you a mail.
You take a credit from your roomie to recharge your mobile balance so that she can give miscall anytime and you can call her immediately!!
You ask her for a spare pen on phone when your roomie has 3 extra pens right next.
When you look into your Lappy and chat with her, while you are talking with others in room.
You buy expensive gifts for her.
You run to Gowda to call her, after she gave you a miss call.
You march out of the room towards the bathroom floor to chat her on fone.
You chat with her 9AM to 1 PM, 2 PM-5 PM, 6 PM- 9 PM, 10 PM- 4 AM.
You go to IT Lab to be with her (Only the second time in your stay at IBA after KM group work!!).
You spend time with her around Gowda shop, Admin Block, Pond, Dining hall etc at unearthly hour of the night!!!
You do your Dashman case study (Mancom) more sincerely so that she gets full mark!!(If only you could put the same effort in 2nd trim in Mancom!!!!)
You Format her word file and take a print out on her behalf.
You giver her Gyan, as to how to go in a train journey, how to travel. (Was she traveling for the first time???)
You wake up at 5 in the morning (By MBA standard 5 AM is unearthly!!) to wish her Happy Journey...
You are the first to ring her whether she reached her home safely.
You mislead your friends and stealthily go to Pizza Hut and bring Pizza for her.
You mislead your friends and go to Jayanagar with a dating trip.
You mislead your friends and take her to a shopping trip.
…
…
…
The list goes on…
This is love and please don’t hide your feelings ever. It is so much visible. Be a stud and accept your love for someone. Don’t hide it under the carpet. And start giving excuses. What I learn is a boy and a Girl can never be friends. If they are it is very unlikely. Somewhere, it will evolve or fade out. And more likely the boy would start doing something like the above points and then I bet this is not friendship. Its love.
But a prude will be defensive. He will never accept his love. He will give lame excuses. But he knows deep inside and we all know this is love. Because if you are just friend you will never do this as cited above. Only when you have some feelings you will do this.
